Why do books have dry condoms or only spit for anal sex? My own
experience, though limited, does not make this seem like a good idea. Does more
experience make that much of a difference?
I think I need to begin this answer by saying that the sex that's written in fiction is idealized and is not meant to be taken as a how to manual. When writing, certain things get repetitive... one finger... check, two fingers... check, roll on condom... check, lube... check. And then the most intense and mind blowing sex of the characters lives... check. Well let's keep the mind blowing sex part, but the rest can get a little dull, so authors try to mix things up or simply skip over some things in an attempt to maintain the emotional intensity.
Spit has been used to 'ease the way' probably since prehistoric times. Now I'm not saying that a little spit is going to make anal penetration easier, but a well wetted and slicked cock will make insertion easier. (Just use your vivid imaginations as to how that can happen. Oral sex is a wonderful thing. **grin**)
As for dry condoms, I have no experience with those and I have to say I love Dominic way too much to ever have used a dry condom. Being entered dry can be painful, sometimes very painful, and can carry connotations of violence. However, this has been used very effectively in BDSM stories or very intense sex scenes where the bottom wants or needs a jolt of pain. As for experience, that can make a difference as can the frequency of anal intercourse.
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